“I love their mission and what they stand for!” - @_beautyfrmheaven
These words from one of our community members capture the heart of why Xander Friends have become beloved companions in homes across the country. We love to highlight people who showcase our products and how they’re impacting their lives. Here’s what real families are sharing about their Xander lavender comfort stuffed animal experiences.
Incredibly Soft & Soothing
“The Xander Bunny is the softest material and filled with lavender to provide soothing relaxation and comfort. They smell so amazing!!” - @_beautyfrmheaven

Elina with her beloved cream Xander Bunny.
Photo from @_beautyfrmheaven
The first thing most people notice about our Xander Friends is the quality. Our Xander Friends are made with incredibly soft material and filled with lavender from our Michigan farm. These aren’t your typical stuffed animals. One mom shared how her daughter, Elina, immediately fell in love with her new “beautiful cream bunny,” drawn to both the texture and the calming lavender scent. They won’t just warm you up, but they’ll warm your heart too. Beck, from Michigan, even shared how “months of restless sleepless nights” had prompted them to try out the Xander bunny. She says, “Grayson loves how soft he is, and he smells ahhhhmazing!!” When softness meets soothing lavender, peaceful nights finally become possible. Stories like Beck’s and Elina’s are exactly why we grow our lavender with so much care.
Comfort for All Ages
“When you are anxiously awaiting the cast announcement for the Spring show, it’s nice to have an XL Xander Friend to cuddle with! Xanders are for big kids too!!” - @michaelagraceofficial

Comfort knows no age; even big kids love their Xander Friends!
Photo from @michaelagraceofficial
The need for comfort doesn't end in childhood. Families have shown us that comfort knows no age limit. From toddlers adjusting to bedtime to teens like Michaela navigating performance nerves, Xander Friends offer a calming presence exactly when it's needed. As Teressa from Tennessee put it, their Xander Friend "helps calm my boys if they're feeling anxious by bringing a warm, comforting hug." That warm, comforting hug? It’s exactly what we hoped Xander would bring to every child who needs it.
A Cause Worth Supporting
“I love companies that are non-profit and for a cause!” - @hoangviton
“I love a company on a mission!!” - @balaybecks

The perfect gift with purpose.
Photo from @hoangviton
Time and time again, our supporters tell us that the mission behind Xander Friends is what draws them in. “Learning that Lavender Life started with lavender farmers Vic and Vickie Bennett, who founded the company after their grandson Xander came into their lives through foster care, makes each purchase meaningful.” - Ashley Mayer.
The One-for-One Promise
“For every Xander Bunny purchased, Lavender Life gives a bunny to a child in foster care.” - @_beautyfrmheaven, @michaelagraceofficial, @hoangviton, @kaylievarney

Spreading comfort, one bunny at a time.
Photo from @_ashleymayer_
This is the detail that transforms a purchase into purpose. Our Xander families love knowing that when they buy a Xander Friend for their child, they’re also simultaneously providing comfort to a child in foster care who needs it just as much.
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Photos courtesy of @atayinthelifee,@jennyliv, @jacqikambish,@jazzyuk_12_,@gizweezy,@pumpkinandgray,@_beautyfrmheaven,@athomewithjanan, @la_towne, @mommareview, @mydailybeautydose,@vidaandco_,@yeahitsema
Thoughtful Design Features
Customers who have purchased have highlighted features that make Xander Friends special:
- Lavender filling that can be warmed for enhanced aromatherapy
- A glow-in-the-dark heart on the foot to ease nighttime fears
- Organic lavender sourced from our own Michigan farm
- Available in gift sets with complementary products like clothing accessories, fog spray, and more.
“These stuffies are filled with lavender from their Michigan farm and can be warmed to get the maximum lavender scent and calming effect. There is also a glow-in-the-dark heart on Xander’s foot to help make nighttime a little less scary.” -@ashleymayer
“Rylie loves her @lavenderlifeco Xander Bunny ever since I gave her Easter basket. Now, I need to give Gian one too! Aside from it being so cute and cuddly, Rylie loves hugging it because it has the loveliest smell of lavender.” - @gizweezy
Join Our Community
Our Lavender Life supporters are so passionate about Xander Friends. They’re not just satisfied customers, they’re advocates for a mission that matters. Ready to see what all the love is about? Every Xander Friend purchased brings comfort to two children: yours and one in foster care. Feel free to upload your pictures on socials with your Xander bestie to possibly be featured in future blogs using #lavenderlife and #lavenderlifeco We can't wait to hear your story and welcome you into our Xander Family!


