We grow every bit of lavender ourselves
From the field to the bottle to the bunny — we plant, distill, and handcraft all 180+ products by hand on our family farm.
A little friend for big feelings
Weighted, lavender-filled companions that help little ones feel calm, safe, and finally asleep — and send comfort to a child who needs it too.
For every Xander Friend that finds a home, we send one to a child facing trauma — through XanderCommunity.
See the mission →We grow real English lavender — hand-harvested and bottled right here on our Michigan farm. Never French imports. Never lavandin.
Lavender you can actually cook with
Because we grow food-grade English lavender — ours belongs in your kitchen. Syrups, extracts, dried culinary buds, teas, and honey, all from our farm.
Our top sellers, beyond the friends
The same English lavender we grow goes into everything.
Comfort, passed on
The Xander Friends were born from a belief that no child should face fear alone. Through XanderCommunity, every purchase sends a weighted, lavender friend to a child in trauma.
When you bring one home, you give one away. That's the whole idea.
Learn about the mission“My daughter won't sleep without her bunny now. It's the calmest bedtime has been in years.”
